High-Conflict First off, what is a “high-conflict” opponent? The term isn’t specifically anywhere, but is more a catchall term for a person who attaches their identity to a conflict. It usually, but not always, is associated with divorce and child custody proceedings. Because the conflict defines a part of who they are, they cling to it to survive. Eliminating the conflict is treated as an existential threat, so they obsessively cultivate and foster it. Because the motive of

“I Just Wanted a Decent Night’s Sleep” This one is a little personal, and is something that I have never talked about publicly, so bear with me. As I see this exact issue coming up more and more in Family Court litigation, I hope my story can help someone. I recently celebrated an anniversary that I never thought would appear on my “life” calendar … something I never thought I would need to “celebrate” in the first place: my two year anniversary of complete sobriety. My str

This one is for the guys. It’s short and sweet, but it needs to be said. I’m surprised how often problems come up regarding Mother’s Day and Father’ Day in high conflict custody cases (even in this midst of litigation, which is even more surprising), but sometimes common sense has a habit of “vanishing” when we get caught up in the ongoing “battle.” In short, Sunday is a big deal for your child, and you should treat it a such. You may not like your ex, and she may not like y

People often divorce because they no longer compromise and argue frequently. The initial foray into the family court arena is replete with stress, unfettered emotion, and anger which can lead to perpetual conflict. However, carefully picking your battles and learning to respond diplomatically can save your mental health, your money, and, ultimately, your litigation. Not every hill is a hill to die on. Here are some ideas to assist you so you can decipher when to fight back an